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Lakeboater 05-22-2015 11:51 AM

Alton Bay Suicide
 
Just heard that a body recovery is going on in Alton Bay. Anyone have any more information?

Misha888 05-22-2015 12:14 PM

No information . . .
 
is going to be released is what I read from a FD pal. :(

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Originally Posted by Lakeboater (Post 245262)
Just heard that a body recovery is going on in Alton Bay. Anyone have any more information?


Misha888 05-22-2015 05:54 PM

Sad news. Missing woman from Gilford found.
 
https://www.facebook.com/permalink.p...296882&fref=nf

Misha888 05-22-2015 06:00 PM

Another article
 
http://www.unionleader.com/article/2....TKxcO8zR.dpuf

TiltonBB 05-23-2015 04:44 AM

More about who she was
 
http://www.unionleader.com/article/2...late=mobileart

glennsteely 05-28-2015 11:52 AM

What ever happened?
 
What was the outcome of this? Does anyone know anything else?

Misha888 05-28-2015 04:34 PM

Sadness . . .
 
apparently.

"Her happiness led her to become a Life Coach and teach other people how to become happy." I wished she followed her own advice.

http://www.laconiadailysun.com/index...e-l-pochily-52

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Originally Posted by glennsteely (Post 245631)
What was the outcome of this? Does anyone know anything else?


Lakeboater 05-28-2015 09:20 PM

title
 
I'm curious why the title of this thread was changed from recovery to Alton Bay Suicide. Just wondering...

Misha888 05-28-2015 09:41 PM

I thought . . .
 
you had changed it. Probably an admin? Odd and I wouldn't someone to do that to my post.

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Originally Posted by Lakeboater (Post 245674)
I'm curious why the title of this thread was changed from recovery to Alton Bay Suicide. Just wondering...


ishoot308 05-28-2015 09:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Misha888 (Post 245675)
you had changed it. Probably an admin? Odd and I wouldn't someone to do that to my post.

Yeah, I noticed one of my post titles was changed as well...didn't like it one bit!

Dan

tis 05-29-2015 06:17 AM

What is a life coach? Is it a volunteer position or a real job?

glennsteely 05-29-2015 08:23 AM

Makes me wonder....
 
I dont mean to sound harsh, but i wish i knew what was going on in her life to make her want to do this, and how she did it.....i dont know her, but i am drawn to this story and this woman for some reason.....i just feel like there is a big part of this that we are not seeing or hearing.....idk, could just be me. Any more info would be appreciated.

glennsteely 05-29-2015 08:26 AM

Sorry...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by tis (Post 245687)
what is a life coach? Is it a volunteer position or a real job?

didnt see this before i started my last post....

A life coach is like a motivational speaker who also does private sessions instructing people how to live life and be happy and make the most out of what you have, drawing from their own personal experiences.....

I hope that answers your question, also, that is my definition, not all may agree, but basically, that sums it up.

tis 05-29-2015 06:19 PM

Sounds good to me!!!:)

Misha888 05-29-2015 06:28 PM

You are correct . . .
 
No children, and tortured souls can be pushed to the brink. It also states that you can donate to a cancer foundation. Maybe she had cancer and wanted to finalize her life in her own way? Just all interpretations of a long obit. I feel sorry for her either way.

I know of a happy person on the outside who took her own life. Sometimes there is just no answer.

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Originally Posted by glennsteely (Post 245706)
didnt see this before i started my last post....

A life coach is like a motivational speaker who also does private sessions instructing people how to live life and be happy and make the most out of what you have, drawing from their own personal experiences.....

I hope that answers your question, also, that is my definition, not all may agree, but basically, that sums it up.


Lakeboater 05-29-2015 08:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Misha888 (Post 245758)
As I read, she was married but had a boyfriend. No children, and tortured souls can be pushed to the brink. It also states that you can donate to a cancer foundation. Maybe she had cancer and wanted to finalize her life in her own way? Just all interpretations of a long obit. I feel sorry for her either way.

I know of a happy person on the outside who took her own life. Sometimes there is just no answer.

Huh? Reads more like her second husband predeceased her.
RIP

bruinsfan 05-29-2015 10:46 PM

Jeff passed in 2011.

glennsteely 05-30-2015 10:26 AM

Just feels.....wrong.
 
I feel horrible for her and the situation, not to mention the loved ones....but, it doesnt seem like the whole story is being told, seems like a whole lot is being left out. Cover up, conspiracy? Idk, foul play maybe? Did she drown herself? I am just drawn to this story, something, i dont know what, is bugging me about it, just doesnt seem right.
Maybe i'm crazy, but it just feels wrong. I hate to seem harsh, like i said, i truyly feel for this woman, and her family and friends, but i also feel "haunted" sort of, like she is saying to me, "help," "dont let this rest, get someone to listen, there is more to my story than is being said."
again, maybe i am crazy.....

Mr. V 05-30-2015 12:00 PM

We Americans typically don't discuss publicly people's reasons for suicide; perhaps it is out of respect for their surviving family, and perhaps it's because suicide is always an option for all of us at any time, and some of us are so close to ending it all that a mere nudge might be all it takes to push us over the edge.

*Not speaking from personal experience: I love my life*

Greene's Basin Girl 05-31-2015 01:51 AM

A close friend had a son that died of a heroin overdose. She wanted to mention the way he died in the obituary. The local newspaper's would not print it.

tis 05-31-2015 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Greene's Basin Girl (Post 245812)
A close friend had a son that died of a heroin overdose. She wanted to mention the way he died in the obituary. The local newspaper's would not print it.


Really? I didn't know that. I don't understand that either. Why should the papers sensor what people want to put in an obituary?

fatlazyless 05-31-2015 09:31 AM

Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax.

Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

chipj29 06-01-2015 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless (Post 245832)
Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax.

Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it.
By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

Are you freakin' kidding me? You are seriously suggesting that this woman (among others) committed suicide because of unpaid property tax?

fatlazyless 06-01-2015 10:51 AM

...... yikes!
 
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Originally Posted by chipj29 (Post 245892)
Are you freakin' kidding me? You are seriously suggesting that this woman (among others) committed suicide because of unpaid property tax?

Yes ..... seriously ..... for many NH property tax payers, the local property tax bill that comes in the mail does not even get opened to look at the bill for a long time .... like weeks .... because they dread having to pay it ..... because it sometimes is arbitrary and not based on their ability to pay it .... and the people are stuck with a big problemo..... so's it could well be a contributing psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problem ..... what to do ..... yikes!

That Guy 06-01-2015 12:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fatlazyless (Post 245832)
Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax.

Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.


Quote:

Originally Posted by fatlazyless (Post 245921)
Yes ..... seriously ..... for many NH property tax payers, the local property tax bill that comes in the mail does not even get opened to look at the bill for a long time .... like weeks .... because they dread having to pay it ..... because it sometimes is arbitrary and not based on their ability to pay it .... and the people are stuck with a big problemo..... so's it could well be a contributing psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problem ..... what to do ..... yikes!

http://www.illuminatiagenda.com/wp-c...illuminati.jpg

Newbiesaukee 06-01-2015 01:02 PM

I think this sad thread has run its course.

neutronxray 06-01-2015 02:11 PM

She just purchased a townhouse at Sundown Condos in Laconia. She had moved some personal belonging in but never ended up spending a night there. The property will be tied up now in probate for some time. Very Sad

codeman671 06-01-2015 05:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fatlazyless (Post 245921)
Yes ..... seriously ..... for many NH property tax payers, the local property tax bill that comes in the mail does not even get opened to look at the bill for a long time .... like weeks .... because they dread having to pay it ..... because it sometimes is arbitrary and not based on their ability to pay it .... and the people are stuck with a big problemo..... so's it could well be a contributing psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problem ..... what to do ..... yikes!

I am thinking they think person with psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problems may be you Les...

Charlie T 06-01-2015 08:56 PM

Let her rest in peace
 
I have to say I'm surprised and disappointed by the comments in this thread. I understand that everyone has a right to be heard but for God's sake a person died here under horrible circumstances. Can't we respect the dead and not debate and speculate what might of happened? Leave it alone and let her rest in peace! Her passing should not be cause for gossip, speculation or story telling.

On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass. :(

CT

Merrymeeting 06-02-2015 06:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Charlie T (Post 245972)
On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass. :(

CT

Well stated! Long overdue.

brk-lnt 06-02-2015 06:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Charlie T (Post 245972)

On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass. :(

CT

You can easily block users on this forum. Try it, I did that a couple of years back.

fatlazyless 06-02-2015 06:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fatlazyless (Post 245832)
By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

So, that does not seem to me to be a comment that is in bad taste.....all things considered here.

Happy Gourmand 06-02-2015 07:26 AM

Please, let us all attempt to maintain a bit of decorum and show some compassion for the deceased's family and friends and let this thread die on its own.

codeman671 06-02-2015 08:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fatlazyless (Post 245987)
So, that does not seem to me to be a comment that is in bad taste.....all things considered here.

But what about the rest of the garbage you were spewing?

glennsteely 06-03-2015 07:40 PM

Wow!!
 
This whole thing has gotten way out of hand now.....i think i will excuse myself now, before it gets any worse.

Rest in peace poor woman. I am sure you will be missed. I hope and pray that your suffering has ended, whatever it may have been.


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