LovelyToSeeYou - welcome to the forum.
I read your first post on this thread and felt bad for you at first. I thought the other posters had been a bit rough on you. But then I read other posts on other threads. Holy moly. Although you're more than welcome to your opinion and I'd be the first to say you have that right, but at the same time you've stepped on a lot of toes here in a short amount of time. OUCH!
Do you know what a troll is? It's someone who comes onto a forum and stirs up a bunch of crap by provoking other posters on the forum. Maybe you mean to do this or maybe not, as you say you have "no agenda", but it's my opinion that you're fitting into the description of an internet troll right now.