One of the other factors you should consider is which end of the Lake you decide to live on. There is a pretty big difference between the north vs. the south side. The Lake is big and it takes about an hour to drive from the south to the north regardless if you go clockwise or counterclockwise. This has caused a very different life north vs. south. The southern part of the Lake is dominated by Laconia and Gilford and of course Weir's Beach. This area can be very touristy and much more populated. Though there are no chain hotels, there are the requisite Wendy's, McDonalds, Burger King, etc.
The northern end of the lake has a much more quiet atmosphere, especially in the towns of Moultonborough and Tuftonborough. Populations are sparse and there are no chain restaurants. In fact, in Tuftonborough there are no sit-down restaurants that I can think of and only one gas station (and that is for boats). But just 6 miles or so to the East is the lovely hamlet of Wolfeboro. A bit more populated than the other two towns, it has all the amenities needed for quiet living including a hospital. It has a bunch of excellent restaurants and even a Dunkin Donuts (much to the chagrin of many residents). Many still don't know how that one slipped through.
With a 45 minute drive north from that part of the lake you will be in the midst of ski country. The mountains are beautiful anytime of the year starting with the Ossipee mountains then the White Mountains and the Mt. Washington Valley. Great skiing, snowmobiling and high property values.
If you are evaluating the Lakes region as a possible location, keep in mind that there are big difference in the various towns. But the one thing we all have in common is our beautiful Lake. If you are fortunate enough to have the resources, building or buying on the water is as good as it gets. But if that is not possible, a leased or purchased dock at one of the marinas gets you out there whenever you want. My favorite time is at dusk, especially Sunday night through Thursday night. A short, slow cruise with good friends or your honey and an appreciation of the beauty around you is the best way to reduce the stress of life regardless of where you live. Shut off the enginge and listen for the sounds of the loons or the "slappage" on your hull. Ahhh..., I'm not out there yet???