I think its a tough situation, but my vote goes with Tower Hill. There are things that can be done to mitigate some of the noise a band will cause. I also think the Ames 110db statement is ridiculous!
Check this link!
http://www.gcaudio.com/resources/howtos/loudness.html
I think new business in the Weirs should be encouraged! Anything that will help to make the Weirs a destination again. I dont see a ton of people visiting the Weirs with the sole intention of sleeping quietly.
Woodsy