I have been in e-contact with the bride, and she is mulling things over.....flavors, colors, teirs, etc, and these suggestions are all wonderful, and I thank all of you for your help.
I will tell her the names and numbers of everyone and let her and the groom (my son

) decide what they want, work out the details, and we will pay the tab!!
Thanks again, everyone.
Gotta love New Englanders!!!!