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Old 06-20-2025, 07:21 AM   #91
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Originally Posted by TiltonBB View Post
I will respectfully disagree. My goal would be harmony and hoping the next generation gets along well and the successful social interaction of family members continues. That would be more important than who gets the camp.
Taking care of one child to the detriment of the others is a recipe for jealousy and infighting. Leaving with the message that life is not fair and I don't care if you bitch is a poor legacy for a parent.
Agreed. As one of three children, all of whom love each other and get along great, despite having different interests, I’d be horrified if I inherited a camp at the expense of my sister and brother. To the point that I’d immediately look at options to undue that decision and ensure equal distribution to all three of us.

Every family dynamic is different and requires carefully considered strategies.
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