Not to twist your knickers any further, but calling someone disingenuous means calling them dishonest or insincere. That's calling them a liar. Suggesting that if you were part of this 'clique' of which you speak, your post wouldn't have been deleted, well, that's accusatory. Your above average command of the English language doesn't assuage the impact of calling someone a liar or of not running the place even handedly. It just means you do it with more panache. But disingenuious is spelled disingenuous, so you better tighten up the wrapping paper on your pretty, yet ugly posts. Abuse of the caps lock and exclamation points take away from your normally lovely posting style, as well.
Deep breath, sa. Deep breath.