Compassionate police

[Waterbaby]

Very, very nice, and thanks for sharing this, SIK!

It's so heartwarming to hear of people's compassion for others in this difficult time, especially someone whose position is to uphold the law. What a wonderful man! My kudos to Officer Wholley, and also to the Cumberland Farms organization.

[SAUGUS BOATER]

This is a great story. Especially when most of the threads in here about Law Enforcement types are highly negative such as the threads on N.H.M.P. (justified or not). What it boils down to is that the police aren't just supposed to just be "busting" people, but they are actually there to "help" people. Sometimes "helping" people involves non-traditional methods, such as those employed by Officer Wholley. Not many cops take the time to look at the whole picture. Kudos to Officer Wholley and Cumby's. I try not to have dealings with Laconia P.D. , but I know where i'm taking my convenience store business in the future.

[Lakesrider]

"Laconia has a program called Problem Oriented Policing, which acknowledges that many crimes can be rooted in desperation from hunger and homelessness."

Better get ready to implement that policing policy a whole lot more in the near future!

[Winnipesaukee]

I'm going to be the one on this thread that everyone detests. Why am I the only person to see something wrong with this?

In short a police officer rewarded a man who was caught committing larceny (and the President of C.M. donated $X to Y which is great and not the concern of my post). He was also found to have a warrant for his arrest for jumping bail on a different crime.

Although I see the spirit of his intentions, he absolutely should not have paid for this man's stolen food, THEN let him off. What if Mr. Wholley isn't around when this guy steals--and you can bet he will steal again--something from my shop down the street? Maybe Laconia should establish a food bank that this man could have gone to? Wait, they have one.

This especially bothers me given threads like this-click.

I don't mean to be "that guy" but come on. This is a bit ridiculous.

[SAUGUS BOATER]

WINNIPESAUKEE,

there's a big difference between someone who is stealing sandwiches and someone who is stealing flat screen t.v.'s

Try to imagine having no job and no money. Humans need to eat to survive. I'm not saying the man was justified stealing anything, stealing is WRONG !!!. But stealing for something to eat is survival, basic human instinct. Breaking into someone's house and stealing flat screen t.v.'s, computers, etc. is just greed, a whole different animal indeed. In general, if you're stealing T.V.'s and computers, it is to hawk for drugs, not survival. Try to look at the big picture.

[Waterbaby]

Originally Posted by SAUGUS BOATER

WINNIPESAUKEE,

there's a big difference between someone who is stealing sandwiches and someone who is stealing flat screen t.v.'s

Try to imagine having no job and no money. Humans need to eat to survive. I'm not saying the man was justified stealing anything, stealing is WRONG !!!. But stealing for something to eat is survival, basic human instinct. Breaking into someone's house and stealing flat screen t.v.'s, computers, etc. is just greed, a whole different animal indeed.

Exactly. I work for a social services organization now, and some of the stories -- and I use that term loosely, perhaps situations would be a better word -- are just absolutely heartwrenching. Yes, there are food pantries and soup kitchens out there, but they are feeling the squeeze also, donations are down and need is up, and I see it on a daily basis. I consider myself very lucky to have a job, my family and I have our home and clothing and heat, we can pay our bills no problem............... My level of compassion has risen considerably, and I wish I could help more than what I do now. There are people who have never, ever, ever had to ask for help before and a lot of them are taking a serious hit to their self respect, never having been in this position before. I've been in that position myself, and believe me, it can be very demeaning with the attitude of others seeing someone using WIC vouchers or food stamps or anything along those lines. I never imagined I would be looked down upon by someone because I was, as a last resort, asking for assistance and then using that assistance -- and this was about 12 years ago, when the economy was roaring along and my husband and I found ourselves unexpectedly in a real time of need.

Had I the option this would have been sent to "ALL", this is not addressed to SAUGUS BOATER in particular, and sorry for the ramble, it's just a subject near and dear to my heart.

As far as SB's comment: Breaking into someone's house and stealing flat screen t.v.'s, computers, etc. is just greed, a whole different animal indeed. -- Absolutely! Not to mention, in my experience of my home being invaded, a need for drug money -- and the "perpetrator" was being driven around by her attorney........... but that's another story!