Suspicious Death in Wolfeboro

chowda · 07-26-2009, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by tis

I don't think he fought with the new boyfriend that night, as the new boyfriend was out of town. I heard he did have a fight though with another guy though.

Vittum had an altercation with the married man that had been "pressuring" her. The new person she had recently begun seeing was out of town that night as you said. It is this person's ex that is the flight attendant in question. So maybe Vittum's statement of "coward, whoever he is" should have been "he or she".

jpskate8 · 07-31-2009, 05:45 PM

Any one know if the new man she was seeing was Jim Lawery?
I had herd it was.....

Heaven · 07-31-2009, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by jpskate8

Any one know if the new man she was seeing was Jim Lawery?
I had herd it was.....

The "out of town new person" was not J.L., the married person was not J.L. either.

winnipugs · 08-01-2009, 09:40 AM

omg could the rumor mill go any further!! this woman has kids who are on the internet and i dont think they need to reed of the key club b.s.. leave stacey with some dignity, she was an amazing person with a heart of gold. she was 41 years old, an adult, those kids always came first , and what she chose to do with her time was HER business. guys just becareful as to what you post as there are little eyes that might be curious and read here.

chowda · 08-01-2009, 04:58 PM

I agree w/ WinniPugs. It amazes me as to how many people that didn't even know her at all, suddenly seem to know every intimate detail of her life. How would they know for a fact about her participating in "key clubs" or drugs unless they themselves were there partaking in the same things right there with her.

As for J.L. COME ON, SERIOUSLY If there had been anything going hopefully he would have shown a little more respect at the memorial service other than sitting there smacking gum the entire time.

gokart-mozart · 08-01-2009, 05:53 PM

It's a nice idea that what one chooses to do with one's own time, or one's own private life, is nobody else's business.

It's even true, up to a point.

That point is long past when you wind up dead, leaving five motherless children and a hole in your community. IF "private" behavior caused this crime or even set it up, then it isn't no one's business any more.

It's everyone's business.

Mr. V · 08-01-2009, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by gokart-mozart

... leaving five motherless children and a hole in your community. IF "private" behavior caused this crime or even set it up, then it isn't no one's business any more.

It's everyone's business.

Anyone know if the children will wind up being a public charge?

Bet they do.

Then this whole sordid affair (pun intended) is everybody's financial business.

Argie's Wife · 08-02-2009, 11:10 AM

Something about the posts here that bother me.... I dunno how to say this and don't want to sound "preachy" about it but....

Stacey Burns was a daughter, mother, employee, citizen.... you get the idea.

There's family and friends and community grieving their loss. Please be cautious about what you say. You may not intend to hurt anyone with your words and as "interesting" as this mystery is, some of the speculation may do just that. I would guess that some family/friends frequent this place.

Peace.

tis · 08-02-2009, 05:02 PM

That's true, A.Wife, but I don't think a thing has been said here that hasn't been said around town. I know I haven't posted half of what I have heard ( I never like to do that) for that very reason.

chowda · 08-03-2009, 08:23 AM

I agree also that everybody should be more careful about what they post, but it can be difficult to not respond to some of the ridiculous things be said or questioned about her. Also, it doesn't seem in poor taste to correct a posting that you know for a fact is just speculation or even plain wrong. On the positive side, maybe some of the things that come up here could be new information that would help in the case. You never know.

winnipugs · 08-06-2009, 08:44 AM

just to let you all know, i have, with the help of many friends, organized a walk against violence in staceys name to be held at the nick recreation field on october 24 and 25. the event will mock a relay for life type event, meaning you get sponsored to walk laps around the track, you bring your tent and camp out there overnight. the monies that are collected from this event are going into an account at meredith village bank for a scholarship fund also in staceys name to be given to a kingswood student seeking a career in medicine. stacey always gave so much to our community and this is a way for her to still give in her name. anyone interested in participating can email me and id be more than happy to give more info .

email : tngproulx@yahoo.com

08-01-2009, 05:53 PM	#6
gokart-mozart Senior Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 199 Thanks: 2 Thanked 56 Times in 36 Posts	No Man is an Island It's a nice idea that what one chooses to do with one's own time, or one's own private life, is nobody else's business. It's even true, up to a point. That point is long past when you wind up dead, leaving five motherless children and a hole in your community. IF "private" behavior caused this crime or even set it up, then it isn't no one's business any more. It's everyone's business.

08-02-2009, 11:10 AM	#8
Argie's Wife Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Alton Posts: 1,908 Blog Entries: 1 Thanks: 533 Thanked 579 Times in 260 Posts	Goin' out on a limb here but... Something about the posts here that bother me.... I dunno how to say this and don't want to sound "preachy" about it but.... Stacey Burns was a daughter, mother, employee, citizen.... you get the idea. There's family and friends and community grieving their loss. Please be cautious about what you say. You may not intend to hurt anyone with your words and as "interesting" as this mystery is, some of the speculation may do just that. I would guess that some family/friends frequent this place. Peace.

07-31-2009, 05:45 PM	#2
jpskate8 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 5 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Any one know if the new man she was seeing was Jim Lawery? I had herd it was.....

08-01-2009, 09:40 AM	#4
winnipugs Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 50 Thanks: 2 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	omg could the rumor mill go any further!! this woman has kids who are on the internet and i dont think they need to reed of the key club b.s.. leave stacey with some dignity, she was an amazing person with a heart of gold. she was 41 years old, an adult, those kids always came first , and what she chose to do with her time was HER business. guys just becareful as to what you post as there are little eyes that might be curious and read here.

08-01-2009, 04:58 PM	#5
chowda Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 31 Thanks: 0 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	I agree w/ WinniPugs. It amazes me as to how many people that didn't even know her at all, suddenly seem to know every intimate detail of her life. How would they know for a fact about her participating in "key clubs" or drugs unless they themselves were there partaking in the same things right there with her. As for J.L. COME ON, SERIOUSLY If there had been anything going hopefully he would have shown a little more respect at the memorial service other than sitting there smacking gum the entire time.

08-02-2009, 05:02 PM	#9
tis Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 6,826 Thanks: 761 Thanked 1,474 Times in 1,029 Posts	That's true, A.Wife, but I don't think a thing has been said here that hasn't been said around town. I know I haven't posted half of what I have heard ( I never like to do that) for that very reason.

08-03-2009, 08:23 AM	#10
chowda Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 31 Thanks: 0 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	I agree also that everybody should be more careful about what they post, but it can be difficult to not respond to some of the ridiculous things be said or questioned about her. Also, it doesn't seem in poor taste to correct a posting that you know for a fact is just speculation or even plain wrong. On the positive side, maybe some of the things that come up here could be new information that would help in the case. You never know.

08-06-2009, 08:44 AM	#11
winnipugs Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 50 Thanks: 2 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	just to let you all know, i have, with the help of many friends, organized a walk against violence in staceys name to be held at the nick recreation field on october 24 and 25. the event will mock a relay for life type event, meaning you get sponsored to walk laps around the track, you bring your tent and camp out there overnight. the monies that are collected from this event are going into an account at meredith village bank for a scholarship fund also in staceys name to be given to a kingswood student seeking a career in medicine. stacey always gave so much to our community and this is a way for her to still give in her name. anyone interested in participating can email me and id be more than happy to give more info . email : tngproulx@yahoo.com