Pine Cone Pub's Nasty Bartender

Pontoon Goon · 09-30-2009, 09:56 AM

I never really noticed but Marge looks kinda angry AND Hot !!!

Yosemite Sam · 09-30-2009, 11:17 AM

moultonman,
Don't go there today, Marge is greeting people and she doesn't look to happy!!

SteveA · 09-30-2009, 09:46 PM

A mother and daughter walk into a bar...

Mom says.. "Did you see that dirty look the bartender gave me? "
The daughter says... "She didn't give you a dirty look... you had it when you walked in"

Disclamier... Not a comment on anyone's post, just maybe a better way to look at what sometimes seems like a slight from someone else.

I find a friendly smile and warm handshake prevents close to 100% of these type problems.

tis · 10-01-2009, 07:54 AM

That is true Steve and I do usually smile and am nice. But in this case, I don't think it helps.

chowda · 10-01-2009, 08:38 AM

I can overlook a moderately, bad attitude as long as the food is great and the service is timely. I don't necessarily feel like becoming best buddies with whomever is mixing my drink. I just hope they mix it well. That being said, the only complaint I have with this establishment is they made me the blandest Bloody Mary I have ever been served. I'm not talking about the alcohol portion. It tasted like nothing but plain tomato juice with a bit of horseradish in it. The olive was the tastiest part of the whole drink. That one negative factor aside, the food is great and priced reasonably. The service was prompt and courteous. The brunch is always terrific. I have yet to see anyone with a giant, blue beehive. We'll be back for that alone!

Tis- I'm not sure I understood your initial grievance. Your group was sitting at a table waiting for lunch service and you were then asked to get up because another party wanted your table for breakfast that was supposed to be over? That would classify as well above previously mentioned "moderately, bad attitude".

jmen24 · 10-01-2009, 09:11 AM

Bring in some Mentos, they always seem to resolve a potential conflict.

luvmypups · 10-01-2009, 09:59 AM

she's waited on myself and my family before, not the friendliest, most personable woman but I just think her tip will reflect that

tis · 10-01-2009, 01:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chowda

I can overlook a moderately, bad attitude as long as the food is great and the service is timely. I don't necessarily feel like becoming best buddies with whomever is mixing my drink. I just hope they mix it well. That being said, the only complaint I have with this establishment is they made me the blandest Bloody Mary I have ever been served. I'm not talking about the alcohol portion. It tasted like nothing but plain tomato juice with a bit of horseradish in it. The olive was the tastiest part of the whole drink. That one negative factor aside, the food is great and priced reasonably. The service was prompt and courteous. The brunch is always terrific. I have yet to see anyone with a giant, blue beehive. We'll be back for that alone!

Tis- I'm not sure I understood your initial grievance. Your group was sitting at a table waiting for lunch service and you were then asked to get up because another party wanted your table for breakfast that was supposed to be over? That would classify as well above previously mentioned "moderately, bad attitude".

We arrived a bit early about 15 of 12. and were told they didn't know when they could serve us as their local breakfast crowd was very important to them and they would keep serving breakfast. (I suppose if we wanted breakfast we could have eaten.) So we asked if we could wait and they said yes. We had waited about a half an hour between waiting and sitting before she came over to the table and told us. The funny thing was, there was noone in sight waiting for the table. It was all very strange. And it's not like we looked or acted offensively! And yes, I felt it was much, much more than a moderately bad attitude!!!! However, I don't remember it being the waitress who is the one who is being discussed here. (She was the one with the attitude the other time I mentioned though.)

I didn't go back for a long time, however, I finally did. The food is very good as I said, and haven't had a bad meal there ever. Sometimes you just have to get over these things. Just ignore those who choose to not be nice. It takes all kinds to make a world. But I know a lot of people who wouldn't ever go back under those circumstances.

moultonman · 10-02-2009, 07:39 AM

Interestingly there has been no response from the Pine Cone establishment regarding this thread or the attention it has received.

In any event, it would certainly be appropriate, and quite funny, if the offending bartender were to wear a big blue wig on Halloween, when tradtionally, all of the servers at the Pine Cone work in costume.

So belly up to the bar on the 31st Chowda, but remember...

Halloween is the time for trick-or-treat, so sip your drink with caution!

Yosemite Sam · 10-02-2009, 09:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by moultonman

Interestingly there has been no response from the Pine Cone establishment regarding this thread or the attention it has received.

In any event, it would certainly be appropriate, and quite funny, if the offending bartender were to wear a big blue wig on Halloween, when tradtionally, all of the servers at the Pine Cone work in costume.

So belly up to the bar on the 31st Chowda, but remember...

Halloween is the time for trick-or-treat, so sip your drink with caution!

LOL.....You have been a good sport about this whole thing which makes me think that maybe there is a "Marge Simpson" wantabe working there.

I'll keep my eyes open for Marge the next time I go there.

Keep smiling!!!!

jr616 · 10-02-2009, 01:12 PM

I have always found that being OVERLY nice to people, even the ones in a foul mood, will eventually crack them!

I always start with a big SMILE - if they do not say "Good Morning, How r u?" I do. With whatever they return I make the conversation engage (whether they like it or not) - asking if they ARE really "fine" or if something else could brighten their day - like a big tip! I say things like "Thank you SO much I really appreciate it" when they bring my food etc...

Killem with Kindness - Trust me they'll crack!

Pineedles · 10-02-2009, 07:00 PM

It's really nice to see so many Forum members with a positive attitude about dealing with adversity, but I think so many, many times have said they have tried this to no avail.

Coolbreeze · 10-02-2009, 09:35 PM

Here is an idea, if you don't like the service, go somewhere else. It will reduce the time I have to wait for a table.

bumble71 · 10-04-2009, 01:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Coolbreeze

Here is an idea, if you don't like the service, go somewhere else. It will reduce the time I have to wait for a table.

sounds like you don't carry many expectations when giving someone your money huh COOLBREEZE?

moultonman · 10-05-2009, 07:43 AM

As I have stated, I will not return to the Pine Cone.

I will happily yield my place in line to you.

And you won't have to wait as long to be abused.

Enjoy!

secondcurve · 10-05-2009, 08:26 PM

Moultonman:

How about one more trip and this time you get a picture of Marge?

Quote:

Originally Posted by moultonman

As I have stated, I will not return to the Pine Cone.

I will happily yield my place in line to you.

And you won't have to wait as long to be abused.

Enjoy!

moultonman · 10-06-2009, 10:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by secondcurve

Moultonman:

How about one more trip and this time you get a picture of Marge?

YosemiteSam has posted one already, just Look Up!

dpg · 10-06-2009, 07:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jr616

I have always found that being OVERLY nice to people, even the ones in a foul mood, will eventually crack them!

I always start with a big SMILE - if they do not say "Good Morning, How r u?" I do. With whatever they return I make the conversation engage (whether they like it or not) - asking if they ARE really "fine" or if something else could brighten their day - like a big tip! I say things like "Thank you SO much I really appreciate it" when they bring my food etc...

Killem with Kindness - Trust me they'll crack!

I hear what your saying but when I'm out spending my money I'm not about to try chearing people up. I'm not looking for my butt to be kissed by any means but if your in the service industry of any kind you should act reasonable towards people or get layed off.

CrawfordCentury · 10-06-2009, 10:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dpg

I hear what your saying but when I'm out spending my money I'm not about to try chearing people up. I'm not looking for my butt to be kissed by any means but if your in the service industry of any kind you should act reasonable towards people or get layed off.

I remember being at an event where past director of White Mountain Attractions Dick Hamilton spoke a few words. Of those in the tourism and hospitality business, he said "We're in the smiles business. Your customer doesn't smile, you don't get paid."

So, in a sense, I'm sympathetic to the OP.

However, there's a gal at a restaurant we frequent who has a perpetual look on her face like she's crunching an aspirin with her teeth - and has a personality to match. She's grumpy to the point of entertaining! If we went there and she was cheery, it would be like they left the tomatoe off from my burger

Heck, Cliff Claven kept going back to Cheers - in spite of, or perhaps because of his constant berating by Rhea Pearlman's character!

Greene's Basin Girl · 10-07-2009, 01:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CrawfordCentury

I remember being at an event where past director of White Mountain Attractions Dick Hamilton spoke a few words. Of those in the tourism and hospitality business, he said "We're in the smiles business. Your customer doesn't smile, you don't get paid."

So, in a sense, I'm sympathetic to the OP.

However, there's a gal at a restaurant we frequent who has a perpetual look on her face like she's crunching an aspirin with her teeth - and has a personality to match. She's grumpy to the point of entertaining! If we went there and she was cheery, it would be like they left the tomatoe off from my burger

Heck, Cliff Claven kept going back to Cheers - in spite of, or perhaps because of his constant berating by Rhea Pearlman's character!

I went there today for lunch and a women named Gerry waited on on. She was waiting on the bar and all the tables. She is tall with gray hair and lives in Tuftonboro. She was pleasant enough ,although she forgot to ask us how our meals were. I really don't hold that against her as she was quite busy. The food as usual was very good. I don't think she is the women everyone is talking about , although she could look as if she was crunching an aspirin. She is certainly not cheery cheery, but she was fine. Nothing to complain about!

VitaBene · 10-07-2009, 09:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dpg

I hear what your saying but when I'm out spending my money I'm not about to try chearing people up. I'm not looking for my butt to be kissed by any means but if your in the service industry of any kind you should act reasonable towards people or get layed off.

It is not a tough job when you get right down to it (don't get me wrong, you work hard in the restaurant/bar business). Take care of your customers, get the orders right and go home at the end of your shift with little or no residual work or job related worries.

I frequent the bar at Buckeys- They see me pulling in and as I walk in my cocktail of choice is already waiting on the bar for me. The bartenders are nice and efficient- that is all anyone is asking for. Going out for drinks or a meal should be a pleasant experience.

Sunrise Point · 10-07-2009, 05:04 PM

Ok...Gotta try them, where is Buckey's?

Thanks!

Rattlesnake Gal · 10-07-2009, 05:21 PM

Buckey's Restaurant and Tavern
240 Governor Wentworth Highway - Route 109 S
Moultonborough, NH

jack1706 · 10-09-2009, 09:16 PM

Well. we just got home from the pinecone, as we call it.
We sat at the bar , had a few brews, pizza, etc. and great conversation with the bartender named "Jeri". everthing was good and enjoyed having her wait on us.
I had to come home and read back to the beginning of the thread ( again ) to see if this was the same person I had been reading about all month !!!
What the heck ??????????

Previously we had only had breakfasts there & no drinks, etc. , but, we went in sat there, were welcomed & many smiles & everyone there was talking to her & to us & I just can't imagine this is the same person talked so badly about.
I came there with a smile on my face... so did she & everyone I saw... soooo, I don't get it !!!
I can only think someone else came in with that frown & attitude !!!

Yosemite Sam · 10-09-2009, 09:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jack1706

We sat at the bar , had a few brews, pizza, etc. and great conversation with the bartender named "Jeri". everthing was good and enjoyed having her wait on us.

Well, I guess what they say is true, then. Beauty is in the eye of the beer-holder!

jack1706 · 10-10-2009, 06:53 AM

I'll drink to that !!!! Cheers !!

(p.s.) she does resemble Marge.

mcdude · 10-10-2009, 08:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pontoon Goon

I never really noticed but Marge looks kinda angry AND Hot !!!

Pontoon Goon: In that case you'll be interested to hear that Marge will be appearing on the cover of Playboy next month! Seriously! I heard it on the radio yesterday!

see.. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/entertainment/8300463.stm

09-30-2009, 09:56 AM	#1
Pontoon Goon Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Stoneham Ma./ Meredith Posts: 141 Thanks: 339 Thanked 67 Times in 27 Posts	geez I never really noticed but Marge looks kinda angry AND Hot !!!

09-30-2009, 11:17 AM	#2
Yosemite Sam Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Lakes Region Posts: 395 Thanks: 81 Thanked 95 Times in 56 Posts	Marge at Pine Cone Cafe moultonman, Don't go there today, Marge is greeting people and she doesn't look to happy!!

09-30-2009, 09:46 PM	#3
SteveA Deceased Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Gilford, NH Posts: 2,311 Thanks: 1,070 Thanked 2,054 Times in 497 Posts	Just to lighten it up... A mother and daughter walk into a bar... Mom says.. "Did you see that dirty look the bartender gave me? " The daughter says... "She didn't give you a dirty look... you had it when you walked in" Disclamier... Not a comment on anyone's post, just maybe a better way to look at what sometimes seems like a slight from someone else. I find a friendly smile and warm handshake prevents close to 100% of these type problems. __________________ "Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, if he gets angry he'll be a mile away and barefoot!" unknown

10-02-2009, 07:39 AM	#9
moultonman Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 13 Thanks: 5 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Hey Chowda, maybe on Halloween... Interestingly there has been no response from the Pine Cone establishment regarding this thread or the attention it has received. In any event, it would certainly be appropriate, and quite funny, if the offending bartender were to wear a big blue wig on Halloween, when tradtionally, all of the servers at the Pine Cone work in costume. So belly up to the bar on the 31st Chowda, but remember... Halloween is the time for trick-or-treat, so sip your drink with caution!

10-02-2009, 01:12 PM	#11
jr616 Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 87 Thanks: 19 Thanked 18 Times in 11 Posts	kILLEM WITH kINDNESS I have always found that being OVERLY nice to people, even the ones in a foul mood, will eventually crack them! I always start with a big SMILE - if they do not say "Good Morning, How r u?" I do. With whatever they return I make the conversation engage (whether they like it or not) - asking if they ARE really "fine" or if something else could brighten their day - like a big tip! I say things like "Thank you SO much I really appreciate it" when they bring my food etc... Killem with Kindness - Trust me they'll crack!

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10-01-2009, 07:54 AM	#4
tis Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 6,769 Thanks: 755 Thanked 1,462 Times in 1,018 Posts	That is true Steve and I do usually smile and am nice. But in this case, I don't think it helps.

10-01-2009, 08:38 AM	#5
chowda Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 31 Thanks: 0 Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts	I can overlook a moderately, bad attitude as long as the food is great and the service is timely. I don't necessarily feel like becoming best buddies with whomever is mixing my drink. I just hope they mix it well. That being said, the only complaint I have with this establishment is they made me the blandest Bloody Mary I have ever been served. I'm not talking about the alcohol portion. It tasted like nothing but plain tomato juice with a bit of horseradish in it. The olive was the tastiest part of the whole drink. That one negative factor aside, the food is great and priced reasonably. The service was prompt and courteous. The brunch is always terrific. I have yet to see anyone with a giant, blue beehive. We'll be back for that alone! Tis- I'm not sure I understood your initial grievance. Your group was sitting at a table waiting for lunch service and you were then asked to get up because another party wanted your table for breakfast that was supposed to be over? That would classify as well above previously mentioned "moderately, bad attitude".

10-01-2009, 09:11 AM	#6
jmen24 Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 1,139 Thanks: 223 Thanked 319 Times in 181 Posts	Bring in some Mentos, they always seem to resolve a potential conflict.

10-01-2009, 09:59 AM	#7
luvmypups Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 87 Thanks: 10 Thanked 15 Times in 5 Posts	she's waited on myself and my family before, not the friendliest, most personable woman but I just think her tip will reflect that

10-02-2009, 07:00 PM	#12
Pineedles Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Moultonborough & CT Posts: 2,545 Thanks: 1,072 Thanked 668 Times in 367 Posts	It's really nice to see so many Forum members with a positive attitude about dealing with adversity, but I think so many, many times have said they have tried this to no avail.

10-02-2009, 09:35 PM	#13
Coolbreeze Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 332 Thanks: 0 Thanked 51 Times in 26 Posts	Here is an idea, if you don't like the service, go somewhere else. It will reduce the time I have to wait for a table.

10-05-2009, 07:43 AM	#15
moultonman Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 13 Thanks: 5 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	Glad to step aside for you Coolbreeze.... As I have stated, I will not return to the Pine Cone. I will happily yield my place in line to you. And you won't have to wait as long to be abused. Enjoy!

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10-07-2009, 05:04 PM	#22
Sunrise Point Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Meredith Center / Winnisquam Posts: 250 Thanks: 87 Thanked 34 Times in 21 Posts	Ok...Gotta try them, where is Buckey's? Thanks!

10-07-2009, 05:21 PM	#23
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10-09-2009, 09:16 PM	#24
jack1706 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Ft.Laud.,Fl & Winter Harbor Posts: 150 Thanks: 40 Thanked 19 Times in 17 Posts	?????????????? Well. we just got home from the pinecone, as we call it. We sat at the bar , had a few brews, pizza, etc. and great conversation with the bartender named "Jeri". everthing was good and enjoyed having her wait on us. I had to come home and read back to the beginning of the thread ( again ) to see if this was the same person I had been reading about all month !!! What the heck ?????????? Previously we had only had breakfasts there & no drinks, etc. , but, we went in sat there, were welcomed & many smiles & everyone there was talking to her & to us & I just can't imagine this is the same person talked so badly about. I came there with a smile on my face... so did she & everyone I saw... soooo, I don't get it !!! I can only think someone else came in with that frown & attitude !!!

10-10-2009, 06:53 AM	#26
jack1706 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Ft.Laud.,Fl & Winter Harbor Posts: 150 Thanks: 40 Thanked 19 Times in 17 Posts	Lol I'll drink to that !!!! Cheers !! (p.s.) she does resemble Marge.

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