Alton Bay Suicide

TiltonBB · 05-23-2015, 05:44 AM

http://www.unionleader.com/article/2...late=mobileart

glennsteely · 05-28-2015, 12:52 PM

What was the outcome of this? Does anyone know anything else?

Misha888 · 05-28-2015, 05:34 PM

apparently.

"Her happiness led her to become a Life Coach and teach other people how to become happy." I wished she followed her own advice.

http://www.laconiadailysun.com/index...e-l-pochily-52

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Originally Posted by glennsteely

What was the outcome of this? Does anyone know anything else?

Lakeboater · 05-28-2015, 10:20 PM

I'm curious why the title of this thread was changed from recovery to Alton Bay Suicide. Just wondering...

Misha888 · 05-28-2015, 10:41 PM

you had changed it. Probably an admin? Odd and I wouldn't someone to do that to my post.

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Originally Posted by Lakeboater

I'm curious why the title of this thread was changed from recovery to Alton Bay Suicide. Just wondering...

ishoot308 · 05-28-2015, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Misha888

you had changed it. Probably an admin? Odd and I wouldn't someone to do that to my post.

Yeah, I noticed one of my post titles was changed as well...didn't like it one bit!

Dan

tis · 05-29-2015, 07:17 AM

What is a life coach? Is it a volunteer position or a real job?

glennsteely · 05-29-2015, 09:23 AM

I dont mean to sound harsh, but i wish i knew what was going on in her life to make her want to do this, and how she did it.....i dont know her, but i am drawn to this story and this woman for some reason.....i just feel like there is a big part of this that we are not seeing or hearing.....idk, could just be me. Any more info would be appreciated.

glennsteely · 05-29-2015, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by tis

what is a life coach? Is it a volunteer position or a real job?

didnt see this before i started my last post....

A life coach is like a motivational speaker who also does private sessions instructing people how to live life and be happy and make the most out of what you have, drawing from their own personal experiences.....

I hope that answers your question, also, that is my definition, not all may agree, but basically, that sums it up.

tis · 05-29-2015, 07:19 PM

Sounds good to me!!!

Misha888 · 05-29-2015, 07:28 PM

No children, and tortured souls can be pushed to the brink. It also states that you can donate to a cancer foundation. Maybe she had cancer and wanted to finalize her life in her own way? Just all interpretations of a long obit. I feel sorry for her either way.

I know of a happy person on the outside who took her own life. Sometimes there is just no answer.

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Originally Posted by glennsteely

didnt see this before i started my last post....

A life coach is like a motivational speaker who also does private sessions instructing people how to live life and be happy and make the most out of what you have, drawing from their own personal experiences.....

I hope that answers your question, also, that is my definition, not all may agree, but basically, that sums it up.

Lakeboater · 05-29-2015, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Misha888

As I read, she was married but had a boyfriend. No children, and tortured souls can be pushed to the brink. It also states that you can donate to a cancer foundation. Maybe she had cancer and wanted to finalize her life in her own way? Just all interpretations of a long obit. I feel sorry for her either way.

I know of a happy person on the outside who took her own life. Sometimes there is just no answer.

Huh? Reads more like her second husband predeceased her.
RIP

bruinsfan · 05-29-2015, 11:46 PM

Jeff passed in 2011.

glennsteely · 05-30-2015, 11:26 AM

I feel horrible for her and the situation, not to mention the loved ones....but, it doesnt seem like the whole story is being told, seems like a whole lot is being left out. Cover up, conspiracy? Idk, foul play maybe? Did she drown herself? I am just drawn to this story, something, i dont know what, is bugging me about it, just doesnt seem right.
Maybe i'm crazy, but it just feels wrong. I hate to seem harsh, like i said, i truyly feel for this woman, and her family and friends, but i also feel "haunted" sort of, like she is saying to me, "help," "dont let this rest, get someone to listen, there is more to my story than is being said."
again, maybe i am crazy.....

Mr. V · 05-30-2015, 01:00 PM

We Americans typically don't discuss publicly people's reasons for suicide; perhaps it is out of respect for their surviving family, and perhaps it's because suicide is always an option for all of us at any time, and some of us are so close to ending it all that a mere nudge might be all it takes to push us over the edge.

*Not speaking from personal experience: I love my life*

Greene's Basin Girl · 05-31-2015, 02:51 AM

A close friend had a son that died of a heroin overdose. She wanted to mention the way he died in the obituary. The local newspaper's would not print it.

tis · 05-31-2015, 07:54 AM

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A close friend had a son that died of a heroin overdose. She wanted to mention the way he died in the obituary. The local newspaper's would not print it.

Really? I didn't know that. I don't understand that either. Why should the papers sensor what people want to put in an obituary?

fatlazyless · 05-31-2015, 10:31 AM

Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax.

Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

chipj29 · 06-01-2015, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax.

Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

Are you freakin' kidding me? You are seriously suggesting that this woman (among others) committed suicide because of unpaid property tax?

fatlazyless · 06-02-2015, 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

So, that does not seem to me to be a comment that is in bad taste.....all things considered here.

Charlie T · 06-01-2015, 09:56 PM

I have to say I'm surprised and disappointed by the comments in this thread. I understand that everyone has a right to be heard but for God's sake a person died here under horrible circumstances. Can't we respect the dead and not debate and speculate what might of happened? Leave it alone and let her rest in peace! Her passing should not be cause for gossip, speculation or story telling.

On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass.

CT

Merrymeeting · 06-02-2015, 07:30 AM

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On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass.

CT

Well stated! Long overdue.

brk-lnt · 06-02-2015, 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Charlie T

On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass.

CT

You can easily block users on this forum. Try it, I did that a couple of years back.

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glennsteely Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Mantua, N.J. Posts: 472 Thanks: 90 Thanked 111 Times in 38 Posts	What ever happened? What was the outcome of this? Does anyone know anything else? __________________ You have to go out on a limb sometimes, cause that is where the fruit is. You can't get to the fruit from that nice safe spot, clinging to the trunk of the tree......

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Lakeboater Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2013 Posts: 394 Thanks: 20 Thanked 131 Times in 94 Posts	title I'm curious why the title of this thread was changed from recovery to Alton Bay Suicide. Just wondering...

05-29-2015, 09:23 AM	#8
glennsteely Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Mantua, N.J. Posts: 472 Thanks: 90 Thanked 111 Times in 38 Posts	Makes me wonder.... I dont mean to sound harsh, but i wish i knew what was going on in her life to make her want to do this, and how she did it.....i dont know her, but i am drawn to this story and this woman for some reason.....i just feel like there is a big part of this that we are not seeing or hearing.....idk, could just be me. Any more info would be appreciated. __________________ You have to go out on a limb sometimes, cause that is where the fruit is. You can't get to the fruit from that nice safe spot, clinging to the trunk of the tree......

05-30-2015, 11:26 AM	#14
glennsteely Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Mantua, N.J. Posts: 472 Thanks: 90 Thanked 111 Times in 38 Posts	Just feels.....wrong. I feel horrible for her and the situation, not to mention the loved ones....but, it doesnt seem like the whole story is being told, seems like a whole lot is being left out. Cover up, conspiracy? Idk, foul play maybe? Did she drown herself? I am just drawn to this story, something, i dont know what, is bugging me about it, just doesnt seem right. Maybe i'm crazy, but it just feels wrong. I hate to seem harsh, like i said, i truyly feel for this woman, and her family and friends, but i also feel "haunted" sort of, like she is saying to me, "help," "dont let this rest, get someone to listen, there is more to my story than is being said." again, maybe i am crazy..... __________________ You have to go out on a limb sometimes, cause that is where the fruit is. You can't get to the fruit from that nice safe spot, clinging to the trunk of the tree......

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tis Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 6,824 Thanks: 759 Thanked 1,474 Times in 1,029 Posts	What is a life coach? Is it a volunteer position or a real job?

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tis Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 6,824 Thanks: 759 Thanked 1,474 Times in 1,029 Posts	Sounds good to me!!!

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Mr. V Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: the left coast (Portland)and West Alton Posts: 1,427 Thanks: 66 Thanked 260 Times in 178 Posts	We Americans typically don't discuss publicly people's reasons for suicide; perhaps it is out of respect for their surviving family, and perhaps it's because suicide is always an option for all of us at any time, and some of us are so close to ending it all that a mere nudge might be all it takes to push us over the edge. Not speaking from personal experience: I love my life

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Greene's Basin Girl Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Moultonborough, NH Posts: 1,515 Thanks: 394 Thanked 527 Times in 269 Posts	A close friend had a son that died of a heroin overdose. She wanted to mention the way he died in the obituary. The local newspaper's would not print it.

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fatlazyless Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 8,878 Blog Entries: 1 Thanks: 304 Thanked 1,043 Times in 761 Posts	Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax. Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

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