Alton Bay Suicide

bruinsfan · 05-29-2015, 11:46 PM

Jeff passed in 2011.

glennsteely · 05-30-2015, 11:26 AM

I feel horrible for her and the situation, not to mention the loved ones....but, it doesnt seem like the whole story is being told, seems like a whole lot is being left out. Cover up, conspiracy? Idk, foul play maybe? Did she drown herself? I am just drawn to this story, something, i dont know what, is bugging me about it, just doesnt seem right.
Maybe i'm crazy, but it just feels wrong. I hate to seem harsh, like i said, i truyly feel for this woman, and her family and friends, but i also feel "haunted" sort of, like she is saying to me, "help," "dont let this rest, get someone to listen, there is more to my story than is being said."
again, maybe i am crazy.....

Mr. V · 05-30-2015, 01:00 PM

We Americans typically don't discuss publicly people's reasons for suicide; perhaps it is out of respect for their surviving family, and perhaps it's because suicide is always an option for all of us at any time, and some of us are so close to ending it all that a mere nudge might be all it takes to push us over the edge.

*Not speaking from personal experience: I love my life*

Greene's Basin Girl · 05-31-2015, 02:51 AM

A close friend had a son that died of a heroin overdose. She wanted to mention the way he died in the obituary. The local newspaper's would not print it.

tis · 05-31-2015, 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Greene's Basin Girl

A close friend had a son that died of a heroin overdose. She wanted to mention the way he died in the obituary. The local newspaper's would not print it.

Really? I didn't know that. I don't understand that either. Why should the papers sensor what people want to put in an obituary?

fatlazyless · 05-31-2015, 10:31 AM

Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax.

Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

chipj29 · 06-01-2015, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax.

Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

Are you freakin' kidding me? You are seriously suggesting that this woman (among others) committed suicide because of unpaid property tax?

fatlazyless · 06-01-2015, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by chipj29

Are you freakin' kidding me? You are seriously suggesting that this woman (among others) committed suicide because of unpaid property tax?

Yes ..... seriously ..... for many NH property tax payers, the local property tax bill that comes in the mail does not even get opened to look at the bill for a long time .... like weeks .... because they dread having to pay it ..... because it sometimes is arbitrary and not based on their ability to pay it .... and the people are stuck with a big problemo..... so's it could well be a contributing psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problem ..... what to do ..... yikes!

That Guy · 06-01-2015, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax.

Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

Yes ..... seriously ..... for many NH property tax payers, the local property tax bill that comes in the mail does not even get opened to look at the bill for a long time .... like weeks .... because they dread having to pay it ..... because it sometimes is arbitrary and not based on their ability to pay it .... and the people are stuck with a big problemo..... so's it could well be a contributing psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problem ..... what to do ..... yikes!

Newbiesaukee · 06-01-2015, 02:02 PM

I think this sad thread has run its course.

neutronxray · 06-01-2015, 03:11 PM

She just purchased a townhouse at Sundown Condos in Laconia. She had moved some personal belonging in but never ended up spending a night there. The property will be tied up now in probate for some time. Very Sad

codeman671 · 06-01-2015, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

Yes ..... seriously ..... for many NH property tax payers, the local property tax bill that comes in the mail does not even get opened to look at the bill for a long time .... like weeks .... because they dread having to pay it ..... because it sometimes is arbitrary and not based on their ability to pay it .... and the people are stuck with a big problemo..... so's it could well be a contributing psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problem ..... what to do ..... yikes!

I am thinking they think person with psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problems may be you Les...

fatlazyless · 06-02-2015, 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

So, that does not seem to me to be a comment that is in bad taste.....all things considered here.

Happy Gourmand · 06-02-2015, 08:26 AM

Please, let us all attempt to maintain a bit of decorum and show some compassion for the deceased's family and friends and let this thread die on its own.

codeman671 · 06-02-2015, 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

So, that does not seem to me to be a comment that is in bad taste.....all things considered here.

But what about the rest of the garbage you were spewing?

glennsteely · 06-03-2015, 08:40 PM

This whole thing has gotten way out of hand now.....i think i will excuse myself now, before it gets any worse.

Rest in peace poor woman. I am sure you will be missed. I hope and pray that your suffering has ended, whatever it may have been.

Charlie T · 06-01-2015, 09:56 PM

I have to say I'm surprised and disappointed by the comments in this thread. I understand that everyone has a right to be heard but for God's sake a person died here under horrible circumstances. Can't we respect the dead and not debate and speculate what might of happened? Leave it alone and let her rest in peace! Her passing should not be cause for gossip, speculation or story telling.

On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass.

CT

Merrymeeting · 06-02-2015, 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Charlie T

On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass.

CT

Well stated! Long overdue.

brk-lnt · 06-02-2015, 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Charlie T

On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass.

CT

You can easily block users on this forum. Try it, I did that a couple of years back.

05-30-2015, 11:26 AM	#2
glennsteely Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Mantua, N.J. Posts: 472 Thanks: 90 Thanked 111 Times in 38 Posts	Just feels.....wrong. I feel horrible for her and the situation, not to mention the loved ones....but, it doesnt seem like the whole story is being told, seems like a whole lot is being left out. Cover up, conspiracy? Idk, foul play maybe? Did she drown herself? I am just drawn to this story, something, i dont know what, is bugging me about it, just doesnt seem right. Maybe i'm crazy, but it just feels wrong. I hate to seem harsh, like i said, i truyly feel for this woman, and her family and friends, but i also feel "haunted" sort of, like she is saying to me, "help," "dont let this rest, get someone to listen, there is more to my story than is being said." again, maybe i am crazy..... __________________ You have to go out on a limb sometimes, cause that is where the fruit is. You can't get to the fruit from that nice safe spot, clinging to the trunk of the tree......

06-01-2015, 02:02 PM	#10
Newbiesaukee Senior Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: Coral Gables, winter; Long Island, summer Posts: 1,363 Thanks: 960 Thanked 575 Times in 300 Posts	I think this sad thread has run its course. __________________ "You're only young once, but you can be immature forever."

06-03-2015, 08:40 PM	#16
glennsteely Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Mantua, N.J. Posts: 472 Thanks: 90 Thanked 111 Times in 38 Posts	Wow!! This whole thing has gotten way out of hand now.....i think i will excuse myself now, before it gets any worse. Rest in peace poor woman. I am sure you will be missed. I hope and pray that your suffering has ended, whatever it may have been. __________________ You have to go out on a limb sometimes, cause that is where the fruit is. You can't get to the fruit from that nice safe spot, clinging to the trunk of the tree......

06-01-2015, 09:56 PM	#17
Charlie T Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 326 Thanks: 271 Thanked 193 Times in 93 Posts	Let her rest in peace I have to say I'm surprised and disappointed by the comments in this thread. I understand that everyone has a right to be heard but for God's sake a person died here under horrible circumstances. Can't we respect the dead and not debate and speculate what might of happened? Leave it alone and let her rest in peace! Her passing should not be cause for gossip, speculation or story telling. On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass. CT

05-29-2015, 11:46 PM	#1
bruinsfan Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2014 Location: NH Posts: 147 Thanks: 88 Thanked 73 Times in 34 Posts	Jeff passed in 2011.

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05-30-2015, 01:00 PM	#3
Mr. V Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: the left coast (Portland)and West Alton Posts: 1,427 Thanks: 66 Thanked 260 Times in 178 Posts	We Americans typically don't discuss publicly people's reasons for suicide; perhaps it is out of respect for their surviving family, and perhaps it's because suicide is always an option for all of us at any time, and some of us are so close to ending it all that a mere nudge might be all it takes to push us over the edge. Not speaking from personal experience: I love my life

05-31-2015, 02:51 AM	#4
Greene's Basin Girl Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Moultonborough, NH Posts: 1,515 Thanks: 394 Thanked 527 Times in 269 Posts	A close friend had a son that died of a heroin overdose. She wanted to mention the way he died in the obituary. The local newspaper's would not print it.

05-31-2015, 10:31 AM	#6
fatlazyless Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 8,878 Blog Entries: 1 Thanks: 304 Thanked 1,043 Times in 761 Posts	Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax. Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

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